Blog views by real people

I'm not exactly an expert on how to differentiate between blog views by real people & those by automated servers pinging websites for some undetermined reason, but from the lack of reader comments over the past year, in spite of an increase in traffic, I'm beginning to suspect that real live readers are few & far between.
Since the purpose in setting up this blog was to provide myself with an anonymous outlet for my musings (& a few of my archived photos), that probably isn't a big issue.
Having said that, I would be interested in the views of anyone who comes across this site as to how to differentiate between real readers and automated pinging.

Pussy versus cunt

So I finally managed a photo of my Japanese ladyfriend

...and it struck me how different pussy (being her) is from cunt (being my ex) - below.

On the other hand, here's one of an ex ladyfriend, a young Chinese woman, who was a bit of both.

And an Indian woman I met in Hong Kong last year. She was a pussy who wanted to be a cunt - a version of my ex who hadn't yet really acted on it.

A Filipina friend (also in Hong Kong) who would bring back other men and have me watch and photograph. A really strange relationship as I reflect on it now, but so erotic at the time.

As I look at these photos, labia size does seem to influence my assessment - as did their behaviors, including their willingness to pose for these photos!

And finally, here's one an earlier Korean ladyfriend proudly showed me one day after returning from a flight to Seoul:

She was quite open with me about being sexually active - and, being a stewardess, that seemingly came with the territory. When I asked who'd taken the photo, she replied "One of his helpers"....and let me inhale the evidence - like a very strong Roquefort. Although this is something I'd enjoyed before, it was the first time I'd seen a photo of the source.

Double foreskin - so I feel (sort of) vindicated

A number of years ago, during one of my expeditions to the large public toilets at Yaroslasvky Vauxhall in Moscow, I was crouched in one of the toilets about to suck off a lucky traveler. As I slid back his foreskin, to my amazement there was another (thinner) foreskin underneath.
Over the years I've mentioned this phenomenon to several other fellow travelers, always drawing skeptical responses.
Today, I accidentally came across this photo on Tumblr. It's not exactly the same, but I do feel vindicated....and I do wish I'd come across another, preferably in real life.

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As an unrelated matter, I came across this photo somewhere on the internet the other day. 
It reminded me rather vividly of a very good friend whom my ex and I enjoyed having stay over. Being into fermented semen, the next morning provided me with a difficult choice. Fortunately, she usually slept in & woke to provide me with a second course of "ripe cheese for breakfast" - and then with very sloppy seconds for him. 

Cocksucking at the Tseun Wan public toilet today

I went to Tseun Wan yesterday & found a large public toilet by one of the walled garden parks Unfortunately, there wasn't anything on display of great interest. So I headed back there again early this afternoon - and there was plenty to choose from.

Here's the Google Maps image:
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It's at 67 Tseun Wan Market Street and in front of a walled local garden/public park.

Having almost no Mandarin or Cantonese and it being a very Chinese area, I had to make do with some fairly subtle gestures. However, it didn't take much in the way of signaling or encouragement when I spotted what I was looking for, being a reasonably discreet, middle-aged man with a lot of foreskin. He followed me into a private stall - and after some very brief foreplay, I slid back his foreskin with my lips. He obviously found it very erotic....and was done in about 30 seconds.
I went back to the urinals briefly, but didn't find anything of real interest. 
And I do have HKG here again tonight - so I need to conserve my energy.

$10K to suck uncut Chinese men?

Am off to Hong Kong in a couple of days - and will be there for 10 days or so.
It's mostly on business, but anyway you look at it, the cost is about $10K (bus. class airfare, stay in a decent hotel, etc., etc.).
In addition to taking care of business & spending two nights with HKG, whose revealing photo headlines this blog, I intend to spend some time at the toilet just outside the public gardens at Tseun Wan (see "Toilet sex in Hong Kong - & paydirt this time" from Feb./14).
Assuming not much has changed in terms of patrons, I should be well sated. I also hope to get some good photos - don't phones make that a whole lot easier than it used to be? But of course it depends a lot on the available lighting (using a flash would invite a lot of unwelcome attention) and the cultural predisposition of the locals to being photographed.

On a subject that's somehow related to sucking uncut Chinese cock, which admittedly, is an acquired taste, see also:
http://www.buzzfeed.com/luckypeach/how-to-make-dick-soup#.pwWn0NQ2l9
One of my unfulfilled daydreams is to have a dinner party with a cheese & smegma course, where my guests could sample a selection of red wines with various nationalities of uncut cock.

If anyone has any comments or special requests, send them along.

I'm still very much around!

I just realised that it's been quite some time since I posted.....and thought I should let my readers know that indeed I'm still around. I've been distracted with quite a number of business & family issues and haven't been as active or reflective as I've been in the past. But things are starting to settle down. I hope to get to the UK next month & to Hong Kong in March. HKG (who has the feature picture on this site) is actively awaiting my arrival & hopefully I'll have a few photos I can post. I also hope to have time to get to the Tsuen Wan- and we'll see what action might be available - and that will be a different experience for sure.
Any requests or suggestions, please leave a note.

Toilet sex in Hong Kong - & paydirt this time

There's some action in a few of the toilets, but it's sporadic, unpredictable - and somehow not all that alluring.

Last Saturday I had yet another look at the toilets just above Hollywood Road in Sheung Wan.
There were a few men coming & going, but nothing of interest. I did speak with a young man there who was obviously gay (i.e. not at all what I'm looking for), but he was pleasantly forthcoming about what goes on, when the action usually is and all those topics that's it's difficult to engage other fellow loiterers about.
I asked him if the washroom attendant ever bothered anyone. He replied, no, but he was concerned about being hassled by the police because he felt he would attract their attention. I was going to suggest that he dispense with the faux fur bracelets he was wearing, but thought better of it.
The next Tuesday I took the MTR to Tsuen Wan, which is at the western end of the Red Line, primarily to see if there were any interesting markets to photograph (one of my hobbies).
Happily enough, I found the main market & some most unusual fish on display, but, as usual, nothing doing at the men's toilets. However, just a little further along the main road (at approx. 85 Tsuen Wan Market Street per Google Maps) I found a walled public garden, with large public washrooms on the street just before the entrance.
I went in - and was most interested to see the number of older men standing at the urinals. Figuring it might be worth joining them, I found myself a spot....and knew I had hit paydirt.
It reminded me of the washroom at Taganskaya Metro in Moscow. Lots of older (& seemingly otherwise straight) men hanging about discreetly, but for longer than might be considered necessary and (also discreetly) exposing themselves to interested men at the urinals on either side. I would have sucked off either the man to my right or to my left, but a man on his left got to him first & stroked him off while I watched. By that time the man on my right had departed.
I could have stayed longer, but felt that because I was the only Caucasian, a protracted stay might attract too much attention from the washroom attendant. So I departed & visited the park.
After photographing it to death, I decided to revisit the toilet. On entering, I offered a few coins to the attendant (sort of  "please look the other way" money), as he would undoubtedly have recognised me from a few minutes earlier. He very politely declined to take it, but, at that point, I knew he wouldn't bother me.
The man who had done the stroking off a while earlier was still there & I would have stayed to suck someone off, but it was getting late & I had arranged to have dinner (yet again) with HKG 2 - and so departed.
All that said, this toilet is definitely a find & I'd recommend a visit to anyone with a taste for uncut Cantonese cock.

For an update on action there, see my 7 March 2015 blog
Cocksucking at the Tseun Wan public toilet today.

Sated again in Hong Kong

This place is like a candy store.
Absenting myself for 8 days on a business trip to Hong Kong always raises my ladyfriend's eyebrows - to a large extent I think because her job takes her here often & she see the number of gorgeous woman around.....and wonders what I'll be doing over the weekend.
And rightfully so.

A 59 year old Chinese woman (who had spent much of her life in the U.S.) had contacted me on Hong Kong Cupid a month or so ago. So I figured well, why not?
Met her for dinner on the 13th. She was interesting, but I think getting a little old for an interest in "instant romance".

Then there's a woman I'll call HGK 2.
She's a 44 year old Filipina whom I tried to pick up in an outdoor market two years ago. Unfortunately, her employer wouldn't let her out in the evenings, so it went nowhere.
But I stayed in touch - & she found a new employer. So I was able to meet when I was here a few months ago. Although she was amorous, she wasn't about to let anything happen. I might have dropped her, but for some reason I continued to stay in touch.
This time I thought I'd press the case - and so arranged to take her out for dinner on Valentine's Day. While she was quite amorous after dinner, she wasn't about to give in.
Knowing all the Filipina domestics have Saturday night & all day Sunday off - & sensing she was actually a lot more vulnerable than she was letting on - I invited her out to dinner again last night. Back to my hotel again - and her desires got the better of her. It  took her about 20 minutes to have her first orgasm....and then she was hopelessly lost.
Saw her off to church this morning after breakfast. I'm sure she'll seek forgiveness.
She wouldn't pose in the nude, but here she is in the shower.

Cocksucking hotspots?

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More on the smell of pussy

So, thinking back to the study I referred to in my earlier blog that found that the most memorable thing men had from the first time they had sex with a woman was (roughly) "the smell of her pussy".....it begs the question as to why so many women are concerned (in a negative way) with vaginal odours?
And why do they use perfumed products, rather than bathing, to deal with it?
Do they really think men are sexually aroused by the smell of strawberry or roses?

I suppose that the truth of the matter is that they don't spend much time thinking about what causes sexual arousal in men. Their use of make-up attests to this. Have you ever heard a man say (except sarcastically) "that woman needs to use more make-up"?

For a short informative commentary on vaginal odours, see:
http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Your-Vagina-Smell-Good

I had been wondering about how to describe the smell - and why it's so arousing. The article describes it as "musky"....and, of course that's very sexually arousing smell, as I suppose nature intends it to be - probably so because you know what's next.

And for something written by a female gynecologist that you can have your girlfriend read, see:
http://www.blogher.com/how-are-vaginas-supposed-smell

Another interesting week in Hong Kong (mid. Oct./13)

On my previous visit to Hong Kong, I raised the idea with HKG of having another woman join us. Knowing my stamina - and I suppose being interested in seeing what might happen - she arranged for one of her friends to join us for dinner.
After a very pleasant meal, we asked the young woman/girl at the cash to take a photo of the three of us...and, being the helpful sort, after she took the photo she checked to make sure it was OK....but what came up on my camera was the photo at the top of this blog (which I had taken the previous evening). I don't know if she has recovered yet, but I did get my camera back quickly.
Unfortunately, her friend couldn't get her mind around the concept of a threesome. Perhaps she might have felt differently if she had seen the photo in question(?).

This time, HKG (who is now 44 - and always "in the mood"), volunteered another friend, Ruth, who, on learning that I would soon be visiting, had suggested that she might be interested in joining us. She wasn't specific as for what, but it seemed worth pursuing.
So we made arrangements to have her join us for dinner last Saturday evening.
I spoke with her on the phone earlier in the day and arranged to meet her at the nearby Tin Hau MTR station at 8 p.m. - and then walk over to the restaurant together. At about 7:45 she texted me that she had just got off work & was headed home to change....but it went quickly downhill from there. Eventually, around 10 p.m. HKG, who by this time was beside herself, got Ruth on the phone - & she admitted that she had had a last minute panic attack.
So we made the best of the evening, with a late dinner followed by some activities of mutual interest. These two photos might give you a general idea. Neither were taken at the restaurant. 


 



 

I've got a new hot one lined up for my next trip. More about her in another blog.

Protocol in the bushes

See: http://protocolinthebushes.blogspot.ca/

Now who would miss masturbation?

That may seem an odd question, but I notice that since I went into semi-retirement I've become a lot more sexually active. So much so that I'm reluctant to take matters into my own hands (pun intended).
I mean if you've potentially got something coming up every second day (or expect to), you're inclined to preserve your (sexual) energy. But I do miss the buzz.

The absence.......

....of readers' comments on these blogs is somewhat perplexing.
You would think that at the very least a few readers would become incensed at whatever I have to say....or maybe people just come here for the photos?

Penis enlargement - experimenting

So in the "Does size matter?" blog, I mentioned that I'd been experimenting with penis enlargement techniques & that I'd comment on what I'd found.
There are all sorts of penis enlargement products on the internet. If you search around a bit for commentary, you'll see that most are, to say the least, suspect.  However, a couple of years ago, I purchased one of those stretchers, on the basis that if you think of the ligaments which attach the penis to the pubic bone, increasing length should be possible (especially since I've read that doctors have been able to stretch people's legs, which also involves stretching bone - not quickly mind you, but over a period of years). In any event, I found the attaching strap to be a bit painful for the hours of use that were said to be required & so eventually purchased another model with a round rubber strap, which is a lot more comfortable to wear.
Unfortunately, wearing something of this nature also reduces your mobility, so much so in my case that I tore a muscle which attaches to the pubic bone when attempting to jump across a small ditch on a golf course. It was about two months before I recovered from that injury & somehow I never got back to using it again.
This February the thought crossed my mind again. Being hesitant to start using the stretching device again, I looked up a site I had come across a few years ago by the name of Thunders' Place. It's a forum for men involved in penis enlargement. I wasn't able to join the site when I originally came across it, as it had capacity limits, but those seem to have been solved & I was able to join. It has quite detailed exercise programs - and reports from thousands of members on their personal experiences & progress.
I started the exercises shortly thereafter - and about a week into the process came across a discussion on the site about the effectiveness of stretching devices. There was a comment from a member, who had obviously done a fair amount of research, that the devices do indeed work - and that you can expect 1/2" of increase in length for every 1000 hours of use. (I think you have to use it at least 8 hours a day to achieve that, as casual use is unlikely to have any effect, even if you keep it up for decades). So I dug out my stretcher and on Feb. 20th started using it for as much as I could each day. As a practical matter I found that I could manage 12 hours per day when not travelling, but only about 8 hours a day when my ladyfriend is in town (as it can leave you a bit sore & recovery time isn't instant). And I've since really not done a lot in the way of enlargement exercises, maybe once week for 5 minutes, but that's about it.
I'll comment on length gains a little further on, but the most immediate result was a noticeable increase in girth, which many members at Thunder's Place have commented on. It's an emotionally satisfying "quick win".
Which leads me to comment on the USA Today article in my previous blog - and to a reaction I had when I saw an older man at a sauna in Sacramento a few months ago. Although he had a reasonably long penis, there was something unexciting about it. It was because it was thin. It could be that thin just isn't "male". I'm not sure. But it may be a corollary to the finding in the USA Today article that anything over 3" in length will do .
As to gaining length, I'll measure on May 20th, being 90 days (and about 1000 hours of usage) after my start on Feb. 20. I expect that it'll be a little short of the predicted 1/2" increase (although I'm already about 3/4" longer when in the stretcher). The increase in girth is most noticeable - and that's very satisfying.

Does size matter?

There was article on this subject in USA Today a short while back. Here's the link:
http://www.usatoday.com/story/news/nation/2013/04/08/size-male-attractiveness/2063951/

And just in case the link expires, here's the article:
So much for that nice smile and neat haircut -- women are indeed looking for a well-endowed guy, suggests an Australian study of male attractiveness.
Since Darwin, biologists have studied the role of female "mate choice" in species ranging from fruit flies to people, generally finding a fondness among women for taller guys with broader shoulders. Evolutionary biologists have also pointed to the relatively-larger size of human male genitalia compared to our ape cousins to suggest a link there as well.
On the question of whether "size matters" to human women, however, the results have been mixed. Until now, suggests a team led by biologist Brian Mautz, of the University of Ottawa, Canada, in a study published Monday in the Proceedings of the National Academy of Science.
"The big message is that that penis size does matter for attractiveness," Mautz says. "It does interact with height and shoulders though, so it matters more to taller guys that to shorter ones."
In the study, the researchers showed a series of life-size cut-out images of variously-sized men viewed by 105 heterosexual Australian women ages 18 to 53. The women, who stood about 20 feet away from a movie screen to watch and rate videos depicting 343 varied male outlines in a non-aroused state, were told only that the study was measuring "male attractiveness." They also rated taller and more broad-shouldered men as more attractive, as in past studies, but being well-endowed mattered almost as much as height in the new study.
"It is a pretty unusual study, but sex and behavior are important parts of evolution for any species, so the results are worth noting," says evolutionary biologist Wyatt Anderson of the University of Georgia in Athens, who led the review of the study for the journal. "It was a well-controlled study and the reviewers all agreed with the conclusions they reported."
The attractiveness results, however, stopped increasing as fast past a certain length, about 3 inches, the study reports, supporting the idea that the results may have been more a matter of pleasing proportional size in the most attractive masculine shapes, Mautz says. "This is a first-time study, so we should be cautious."
"Another possibility is that females use previous sexual experiences to infer a link between penis size and (an orgasm)," the study added. However they didn't see a connection between a woman's age and the preference, which would argue against that conclusion.
The study authors acknowledge that modern culture may have played a role in what the women rated as attractive, but they also suggest that a preference for the well-endowed may have played a role in the evolution of the human male in prehistory. People have been wearing clothing for about 170,000 years, studies suggest.
One option for a future study would be to run the cut-outs by women from non-Western cultures, to see if they rate men the same, Mautz says.
"It's true that people have culture and it is very difficult to disentangle the effects of culture from evolution, but that doesn't mean that evolution isn't happening," says University of Minnesota professor Marlene Zuk, author of Paleofantasy: What Evolution Really Tells Us about Sex, Diet, and How We Live. "Absolutely there are limitations on the study, it isn't the final word, but it does point to evolution having an effect on humans."
"It certainly is a weakness of the study that we can't go back in time and see how it all played out," Mautz says. "The study also doesn't say anything about what women would find attractive in the future either."

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I was most intrigued to read that anything over 3" will do...well, that's not quite what it says, but you get the idea.
I've been experimenting with penis enlargement techniques and will report in my next blog on my experiences.

In the mood, but no luck

So I finally made it to the Aqua Day Spa (in San Diego, where I'm golfing for the week) late Sunday afternoon.
I was in the mood for older uncut Asian, and while there were a few uncut men around, all were Caucasian or black...and a bit on the young side. Eventually, a 30ish Japanese turned up - and was friendly enough, he seemed totally oblivious to why everyone else else was there - and to my interest in his foreskin.
After an hour and half of steam, hot tub and showering I left for the Karl Strauss brew pub, dinner and my Wall Street Journal.

Ebbing & flowing

I'm in San Diego for a few days & was on my way down to Aqua Day Spa, which I think is Korean owned and caters to an Asian crowd - to see what might be available. It might have been me - or the heavy traffic I was stuck in, but I thought "Do I really want to do this?" and after debating the issue with myself for a minute, decided to take the next exit off the I5 and head over to one of the wine speciality retailers to select a few Napa cabs to take back with me and then have a quiet dinner with my Wall Street Journal.
I had the same feeling when driving back from San Diego in February when I had promised myself that I would check out every rest stop on the I5 through California, Oregon & Washington. Admittedly, the weather was somewhat against hanging around outside (& you do need to be prepared to hang around - the action can be very sporadic), but it does occur to me that my moods & my sex drive do ebb & flow. I'm not sure if that's solely a function of age (& of being human).
I say that because in places like Moscow I never missed a weekend at the public washrooms. They were large & there were always lots of men coming & going - and I was certain to find two or three of interest. And, of course, they were all uncut, so unless I was very short of time, I was never disappointed.
So maybe it's the amount of time & effort that I need to put into it here that's wearing on me.

My attempt to communicate

A while back I wrote on "An imperfect market"........and while thinking about the communication voids inherent in this issue, decided I'd make an attempt to tell others what I'm interested in doing.
I went through a bunch of options and finally decided to print out a pair of large red lips (see photo below) & put it on the dash just inside the windshield of my car when sitting around my usual spot at Central Park..

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Days later....well, that doesn't work so well, as it's difficult for passers-by in their cars to see properly - and it also attracts some unwanted attention....so I'm having a t-shirt made up with the lips on the front. I'll try wearing it discreetly under a shirt - & I can open few buttons when I'm near someone of interest.
I know all this sounds a bit crazy, but communicating what you're looking for a is a difficult task in semi-public spots...(to be continued)....

The acroposthion

One thing fascinated me about Russia - and that was how many men had such long foreskins.
Since foreskin keeps the head a lot more sensitive, uncut men tend to reach orgasm a lot more quickly than those who are circumcised. And that meant that many public toilet encounters were all too brief. In busy spots & on busy days, I could make up for that with quantity, but it wasn't always that easy. So I became especially fond of men with a lot of extra foreskin, where working it back with my tongue would extend the whole encounter.
For some interesting (to me, nostalgic) photos of what I'm referring to, see:

http://www.acroposthion.com/

You will also be interested to see my find on double foreskin at:

http://asolitarypursuit.blogspot.ca/2015/12/double-foreskin-so-i-feel-sort-of.html

For commentary & photos on what it goes into best, see:

http://asolitarypursuit.blogspot.ca/2016/03/pussy-versus-cunt.html?zx=1a0cb5230dbc1273

To see lots of foreskin photos, see: http://yesforeskin.tumblr.com/archive